asking online |

Free car engine diagnosis?

August 20. Day 51.

Today’s two askings:

I. I saw a coupon online for a free diagnosis of a “check engine” light. I don’t have such a light, but my car has been mysteriously stalling recently. I called to ask if they’d look at it for free, even though it was a more complicated procedure. I added [...]

immaterial gains (knowledge or access) |

An open letter to Wamu regarding overdraft "protection"

August 19. Day 50.

Dear Wamu,

Here is a letter to say thanks for agreeing to cancel my overdraft protection.

As your telephone banker requested (see the last two paragraphs of yesterday’s posting), I drove over to your branch and asked for a form so I could opt out of overdraft protection. It took a good twenty minutes [...]

grad school |

Reversing the roles: Retailer as asker

August 18. Day 49.

One thing that needs to happen for negotiation to be possible is buyers need to lose the conventional framework that respects the price tag. When I see a listed price, it usually feels strange to bargain. Some things — ceramics in Tangiers, car insurance for a corporate fleet — are perceived as [...]

dining out |

Can we just forget my birthday?

August 17. Day 48.

“Could we forget my birthday? I mean, keep it simple. Nothing crazy or expensive. No presents. Just flowers. Please?” I turned to Mr. A with today’s only request as we left my Mama’s house, where we’d just had lunch with friends visiting from far away.

Every birthday so far, Mr. A has [...]

bending the rules |

Can you upgrade my coupon?

August 16. Day 47.

I can finally see through my windshield! And no, I didn’t get a smashing job offer or win the lottery. Simply, decided to cease putting my fellow San Diegans at risk because of reduced visibility. Isn’t she a sweetheart?

As soon as I pulled up to the carwash lane, a man approached me [...]