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9 negotiation lessons from the trenches

May 12. Day 316.

What do buying a car, locking up the Chicago mob and being a total rockstar have in common?

Negotiation!!!

This afternoon, I found myself in the living room of Gay Hugo-Martinez, a professional acquaintance. (It’s related to the side work I do.) Once our meeting was over, I asked her about her background, since [...]

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Waive the rush fee?

April 29. Day 303.

Mr. A is off to another conference again soon, and I’m on shirt duty. A few months ago I started getting his shirts professionally laundered, since it’s a small price to pay for saving his time at the ironing board. Plus, it makes me feel all girly and girlfriendy to take care [...]

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Quick updates… plowing forward…

April 21. Day 295.

Last day in Nice.

Thoughts swirling, about Europe and the states, grad school, job hunting, writing ideas, the maelstrom of deadlines that await back home.

I bought some summery blouses, listed for 22€ and purchased for 20€. By asking. The salesman was North African. Perhaps that’s why, in a weeklong string of retail French [...]

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Student discount?

February 28. Day 243.

I could have wept for joy.

Swimming pool? Getting a tan? IN FEBRUARY!????

What was I doing in Boston all those years…

That’s right. This weekend (for it’s Monday as I write) I did something I’m totally unaccustomed to. Nothing.

I broke in a new bathing suit. Sat by the pool for hours. Chatted. Read. Stared [...]

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On branding… and national postal services

February 10. Day 225.

When I woke up this morning, my first thought was a nonverbal image/sensation/desire/qualium for two slices of pizza and a coke. Emphasis on the coke.

I don’t know if it was residue from a dream, or if my alarm clock/radio had just played a commercial about pizza and coke, or if the idea [...]