asking for others |

Give me a kleenex? And a free pizza?

June 21. Day 356.

I went on a bike ride today with Mr. A and a friend, the K-meister. We started in the middle of Point Loma and rode up to the lighthouse.

For those readers not from San Diego, i.e. most of you, that means we rode approximately 5 miles each way, up hill and knoll, [...]

dining out |

Discount card or loyalty program?

April 30. Day 304.

For months, I’d been wanting to try out Caffe Calabria, which is rumored to serve the best coffee in San Diego. They roast their own — a great sign. I’d read about this place, then forgotten about it, remembered, forgotten.

The problem was that it closes at 3, which is usually around when [...]

dining out |

Free tea, for no good reason?

April 1. Day 275.

Tonight, I asked for something just to see if I could get away with it.

After dinner, Mr. A and I went for a neighborhood walk looking for dessert (again). We stopped in one pastry shop, Eclipse Chocolat, where I had a great cupcake a few days ago. But this time the guy [...]

haggling |

Daily Asker: Here To Stay!

March 25. Day 268.

Faster than you can say “Daily Asker Taskmaster,” this project is becoming something else. Months ago, I used to be on a constant lookout for opportunities and set out thinking of ways to ask — and if I didn’t find any that day, I used to go out of my way to [...]

getting my money's worth |

Hmm… what could I do with $2,300?

March 1. Day 244.

I’ve updated my excel spreadsheet, where I keep track of the financial gains of this project, and here’s the latest figure.Since starting last July, I’ve saved or gained almost

$2,300!!!

That’s the total of all the goods, services and cash I’ve either saved or received by asking. Free cookie? $2. A bookstore discount? $50. [...]