career asking |

Anonymous glamour? Sign me up!

May 15. Day 319.

It’s Monday as I write. Excuse the delay, gentle reader. I’ve been busier than Borat in a china shop.

Old Business: Ever since returning from that week in France, I’ve been obsessed with this salad. Because this blog is about giving and getting, I thought I’d share the recipe.

Open Source Salad (modify and [...]

bending the rules |

9 negotiation lessons from the trenches

May 12. Day 316.

What do buying a car, locking up the Chicago mob and being a total rockstar have in common?

Negotiation!!!

This afternoon, I found myself in the living room of Gay Hugo-Martinez, a professional acquaintance. (It’s related to the side work I do.) Once our meeting was over, I asked her about her background, since [...]

immaterial gains (knowledge or access) |

Can we have your numbers?

May 11. Day 315.

Boy and girl meet. Boy or girl asks for number. Boy or girl calls. Maybe.

A variation of that theme happened today, when I asked for the phone number of two guys.

Now, I’m not lookin’ for trouble. Just some interesting conversation with some interesting local types.

Here’s how it all went down.

I went to [...]

immaterial gains (knowledge or access) |

Where is she? (A Mother’s Day Special)

May 10. Day 314.

This smell of cilantro on my fingertips… I used to hate it, many years ago, along with the avocado. Now, cilantro drives me crazy, in a good way. I can think of only one vaguely similar scent — cucumber, I think, and no similar taste. And I can’t come up with a [...]

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Operapriety

May 9. Day 313.

Sa-weeeeeet!

Made it.

Six posts in one night, and all caught up.

Now I can sleep.

***

Snagged a great seat at the opera for a great price. Win win!!

I got there very early for some reason. (Compensating, I guess, for getting there really late last time? Right.)

The usher let me in and I took my seat.

A [...]