asking online |

Ask-o-logy interruption: Save $50 off a $250 bed?

I’ve been writing and writing these reports, and we’re almost done!! Two more to go.

But I miss the other reports. The ones where I gallivant around town, ask away, and then tell you, gentle reader, what I’ve been up to!

So I thought I’d interject such a story, because it’s a good one. Because it confirms [...]

getting my money's worth |

Best leather?

June 13. Day 348.

For four days, I’ve been doing research. There are a few leather items I’ve been wanting to buy — a little something for Mr. A, a few accessories for friends, and one special piece for a friend who’s about to celebrate a birthday, graduation, and a promotion.

In Florence over the course of [...]

haggling |

Coffee with Valentino?

June 12. Day 347.

This afternoon I passed through Cetona, a thimble-sized town with an oblong piazza (pictured below), fat old men sitting on the shady patio of the only open bar around 4 p.m., and, my business acquaintance told me, Valentino’s vacation home — tucked behind a thick wall.

“Are you serious? You have it on [...]

haggling |

Ballad of the slimy coupon evader

May 25. Day 329.
I went kayaking on the lake today!!!

That sentence definitely takes three exclamations points. Here’s how they break down:

! — I, as in me, La Roxy, went kayaking. Not some outdoor type, not an athletic pro, nor any of my very adventurous ziplining trapezing rock climbing friends. Little old cafe-a-day meeee!

!! — I [...]

bending the rules |

9 negotiation lessons from the trenches

May 12. Day 316.

What do buying a car, locking up the Chicago mob and being a total rockstar have in common?

Negotiation!!!

This afternoon, I found myself in the living room of Gay Hugo-Martinez, a professional acquaintance. (It’s related to the side work I do.) Once our meeting was over, I asked her about her background, since [...]